Do not only date an adventurous travelling girl? Marry her!

Here are a few reasons

 She is Whimsical; Boon or bane?

 If you have gone through this article which explains 10 personalities and essences of being a traveler then by now, you must have known that a traveler is not only spontaneous in nature but also, chances are high that he/she is a moody traveler. By Moody traveler, I mean, a traveler who follows the swings of his/her mood and is too whimsical to handle. 

A moody person might or might not like another moody person but when it comes to travelling, the common purpose and passion their living for, mood is definitely an encouraging factor. Let’s see it this way: she is whimsical and even too hard to predict and same is true with the guy.

They might fight over thousand things but when it would come down to travelling, they sure are going to find a common purpose and being whimsical is surely going to be a boon here, If you can ignore the other misunderstandings or mute other choices of life where there are chances of feud cropping up; you will surely find the ultimate common purpose of your life. A day will come when you would never know what you are going to do tomorrow or what will be on your dinner menu that night because as a couple, you do not decide, now, you just do it.

 She might be hard to please but she is fit-in-all person

 Over the years, the same adventure tales or travelling documents/pictures might not impress her because she has already seen a lot more than that, but one thing is for sure that she is a kind of “fitting-to-everywhere” person. You name it and she is ready to do it. 

For an instance:
You went for camping and camping sites are overcrowded. She would not mind pitching the tent in the woods. Some girls might ask for a proper shower facility or something which looks like a far star in the sky but she would not complain.
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If she really is going to fall in love with you, she will be there for you and for herself all the time. No matter how harsh or how warm, the situation is. She is ready to drop her feminism to embrace the toughness of life.

 If she still has the child inside her?

She might pester you with thousands of questions like a growing child for whom every phenomenon of this world is packed with kick of surprises. If you love demystifying secrets behind every phenomenon that is enigmatic to her eyes then surely you are going to love her approach towards this world because She would find beauty in every piece of this world: an anthill, sunset leaning over the meadows (Be aware she might ask you about the curvature of the earth), a ship gradually and eventually sailing out of her sight along the beach and if you know things, you would love explaining her.

She will always be curious. She won’t accept anything at face value. She will wonder; she will wonder; she will question you and to herself; about the meaning of life, about her purpose of life. She will wonder about the soul, the nature, the spirituality, the cultural myths, taboos and every bizarre things. And possibly you could tell her that a spirit and soul like her never dies, it just settles into the sky forever and ever…….

You are never going to lose her

The materialistic world is not going to attract her anymore,; neither the 25-carat diamond nor the red swift Lamborghini, it only the chirping of the birds and the mellifluous flow of the water that soothes her ears. Mostly, in western world, where being stuck with husband is not bestowed by their culture, a girl might leave behind her hubby when it comes to money or status but a girl who already has risen above these traits of mundane world would surely not invest her attention and energy in these things because only adventure and a pure heart can impress her. In true sense, she is “one-man woman”.

 She love trying new stuff

Believe it or not; it’s true. She is as much interested into trying out new dishes as much you are into trying out new wine. So drop behind your worries. She is ready to take in everything be it trying rosette in Rome or Becks Beer in Berlin. She would rather accompany you in all the adversities because for her life is also like an adventure with new surprises each new day and she would never expect every new day to be like the bed of roses.

 She is from heart, not from mind

She is into the nature as much as you are; she is into serving the humanity as much as you are; she loves meeting new people as much as you like. Needle of fluctuation would never surpass its threshold because she is from heart not from mind. In this double-faced world, she is not going to judge or make any decision about people based on their talks, money, status, lifestyle or appearance but her eyes are windows to the soul and she can very well perceive other souls. And if someone has only heart to her life then you have the most precious gift of your life with you.

 You perfect partner

She is going to be your number one fan, your cheerleader, you best friend, love of your life and your greatest support throughout ups and downs of your life. You might not foresee the adventure in falling in love with this kind of girl but possibilities are high that she would play many of these roles once committed with you. Does falling in love with her worth take the risk of lifetime? Who knows and you never know. Just never let it slip through your finger and ignore the potential of being one of the most offbeat couples. Just do it……

Traveling alone is out of the box

Once you start traveling alone, you venture into the unventured world. Hanging out with family and friends makes you think that the whole purpose of traveling lies in enjoying with them, but traveling alone proves that wrong. Traveling solo is surely an adventure in itself.
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Know how……

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Meet otherside of yourself:

I, as a girl, travel alone in the streets of Delhi. Roaming here and there; getting lost in the juggling paths and then suddenly coming across something new mesmerizes my whole experience. Once you start exploring each and every turn then you will realize travelling solo is the real time where you can know yourself better and explore within yourself.

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Start believing in yourself as your travel alone

What will I do alone? Whom I will talk to? Who will guide me? These are all cuz I am still a girl, well it might sound a taboo but they really concerened me once. So, start trusting your instinct. Believe me! it is the best way where you will start believing in yourself, in your instincts. There will be no one to meddle in with your decisions. Just walk where your feet take.

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Traveling alone makes you a better observer:

Yes! the same eyes would start observing beauty around in a better way. You will stop at a turn. You will touch a Jute bag at a corner shop. You would want to take out your camera and shoot to show your friends what they might be missing. Yes! you will feel a connection with every little thing around you.

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Traveling alone = Independent traveller:

An Indian girl and an independent traveller. Yeah could be but rare. Let’s erase this rarity.
Once I had a plan to meet with my friends but after waiting for long when no one appeared, I decided, instead, my own route. That was the first time, I felt a string of solo traveller attached to my mind. Planning? what’s that. I am ready to hit any road wherever that might take me to.

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No compromise rather push the boundary:

Being a girl, sometimes I have to go by others decision. But now….a decision is yours. You are your own boss. You are dependent on you and no one else does poke his/ her nose. Just step out and start observing the beauty around. A little boy dancing in the rain; sun setting behind big bunglows; lovers lost in each other sitting on long benches; a butterfly hopping from one to another flower. Are not they beautiful. Would you be appreciate these beauties the same way when you are with your friends? Probably not.

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Traveling alone = Newer you:

I do feel shy expressing and appreciating beauties around in an ant hill or a kite skimming over cool breeze under the azure sky. Well, they might term me an insane. But deep within their hearts, everyone feel the same when they feel the nexus of their hearts with their soul.

People suppress their desires to talk to a beggar or ask about the life of a rickshaw puller. But there is something which keeps us rooted to the invisible norms. We prefer to be in the economical and cultural circumference drawn in our society. I would say, just step out. There is newer you. There is newer world.

Every same thing would turn out to be much different than what you had expected. Every new person you meet has a story to share. Every street you cross by has thousand newer eyes to look into. What might be their past? What could be the possible future. May be you will experience lot of other strange things around you and closely see reality of life.

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Relaxation: Traveling is just a state of mind:

I define relaxation as a state of mind without any sheer apprehensive thoughts. On top of that, relaxation gives you time to prioritize your sentiments. I sometimes discover I was missing my mom a lot. Or may be, I have not spent time with a few of my best friends. Overwhelmed by ocean of thoughts, I am really able to figure out what my mind needs and how I achieve that on short term.

Use what you learn from movies in traveling alone:

May be you think it is not safe to travel alone but always keep your confidence with you never show that you are new to this place because one of my favorite character from movie ‘sex and the city’ Samantha Jones, a girl again hehe,  says:

“Always look like you know where you’re going even if you don’t”.

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Did I miss experiencing something?

I know I am not perfect. If I have missed experiencing something as a solo traveller then I would like to hear that from you. Travel alone is real therapy to explore within you. And in my opinion solo travelers are actually the most fun-loving people who want to enjoy it alone. So I think everyone should travel alone once in your lifetime and then I bet, you will often want to travel alone.

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4 Replies to “Do not only date an adventurous travelling girl? Marry her!”

  1. anupampatra

    I Loved this article. My sweetheart is an absolute travel crazy person and no less adventurous.She has been to amazing places around the globe. I haven’t been out with her so far, but plan to be soon. I see the glint of absolute thrill and joy in her eyes and her voice when she is travelling and when she narrates her trips to those places. So I know how it is to have an adventurous girl as your beloved.

    Truly enjoyed the article

    • trekkerp Post author

      Hi Anupam

      I understand the thrill of being with an adventurous girl on a trip/trek. Unfortunately, I have not dated any adventurous girl on a trek. My post is only inspired by my trekking experiences and other beloved couples love……

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